You can return the spark and passion to your relationship quite easily. You just need to know how to do it. However, some things work literally miraculously. Implement them in your bedroom and believe that you will definitely not be bored in bed.

Actively work to keep your sex life fresh

A study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology found that couples who believe that a healthy sex life takes work are much more satisfied with sex and relationships than those who believe that good sex should happen naturally. Researchers have found that having an implicit belief that sex should be good if you find the right partner is simply inaccurate. Those who believed in this kind of sexual destiny were more likely to experience a downward trend in their intimacy and connection and to become bored in the relationship much more quickly.

“Sex life is like a garden. In order to maintain it, you need to water it and take care of it. So if you want to avoid boredom in the bedroom and outside, remember that good sex takes work,” revealed the lead author of the study, Jessica Maxwell.

Kiss during and especially before sex

Kissing is important because it helps couples connect and ultimately stay together. It releases oxytocin, the love hormone, and also helps reduce the stress hormone cortisol, so couples usually feel relaxed and at ease right after a good kiss. If you make it a point to kiss each other, your hormones will pretty much do the bonding work for you. It’s so simple yet effective.

There is nothing wrong with getting too comfortable in your relationship. It just means you’ve made it really far. But if you don’t want boredom to cause problems in the bedroom, according to science, you can prevent it by switching things up and showing more affection before the act itself.

Change the scene

If you only have sex in the bedroom, try changing the space to spice it up. Explore a new room in the house, spread the word in the garden or book a room at a nearby hotel. A change of location will add newness and freshness to the experience, making it more enjoyable for both of you.

Try a different kind of sexual intimacy

If you are already bored with the most interesting positions during traditional sex, try to take a break and focus on mutual pleasure through touch and taste. Doing so will allow you to slow down and focus on each other’s pleasure, increasing your desire and giving you the opportunity to rediscover the magic of mutual arousal.

Share your feelings

When you first fell in love, you probably told your partner that you loved them. But as relationships continue, people often forget to show their partners love and appreciation in the same way they did in the beginning, which can lead to feelings of underappreciation and dissatisfaction that translate into a poor experience in the bedroom.

Make it a point to tell your partner how much you want them, appreciate them and describe in detail the reasons why you love them. This will deepen your emotional connection and stir things up in bed.

Erotic short stories: I reacted to my husband’s infidelity by starting a rivalry with his lover.

05/10/2023

Single Man

My husband’s lover paradoxically awakened a woman in me that I had no idea was hiding inside me. Sometimes infidelity really can save your marriage.

Mária (30) had known about her husband Milan’s infidelity for a long time. “A man can try to cover his tracks as much as he can, but a woman will always sense such things. Who knows, maybe we really have a sixth sense for the infidelity of our partners”, he states. Although most women who find out that their partner is cheating on them directly confront him, Mária was the opposite case. She always belonged to women who were pragmatic rather than emotional. Or better said, she was able to keep her cool even in tense situations. Discovering her husband’s infidelity was definitely one of them. Her reaction was also more pragmatic, but perhaps incomprehensible to many women…

“I knew two things… That divorce was out of the question, and that if I didn’t want to lose him, I’d have to take his lover out of the game. So I decided to play with the same weapons as my girlfriend. She went to the most exclusive underwear store in town, cooked an incredibly delicious dinner, armed herself with courage and an erotic mood, which I tried to bring into the whole house. When my husband came home, he was surprised, but I also saw a kind of curiosity in his eyes. That strengthened me in my decision”, Mária surprises with her tactics and courage.

After they had dinner together by candlelight, she led her husband to the bathroom, where a hot bath and massage awaited him. Then she made him lie on the bed and tied his hands and feet. “I put on some erotic music and started dancing, gradually shedding everything until I was left with only high heels. It was a strange feeling since it was the first time I had done something like this, but Milan’s instant erection only confirmed that it was going in the right direction. Then I covered his eyes and worked my way from his face to his manhood. I have to admit that I enjoyed it too”, she confides further.

After some time, which Mária tried to fill with various erotic games, she discovered that he still did not give up on his lover. So she decided on a rather radical step. “I said to myself, better with a trio than without him. So I admitted to him that I knew about her and that I wanted us to share it in a threesome. You should have seen his face. But when he decided that I was serious, we met at our house the next evening. I wasn’t even nervous. When it came down to it, I was in a trance. I found that I just enjoy it like no sex before. Since then, these meetings of ours have been repeated quite often. Well, my husband and I are doing great without her. I even found out that apart from our three, their two no longer exists. Although I had to chew on something, I didn’t lose my husband, and to top it all off, I enriched our sex life. It was worth it”, Mária concludes her truly unusual story.

Thanks to one interesting experience from last year’s vacation, I want to do something crazy this summer…

05/10/2023

Single Man

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Sabina was never one of those women who would seek out sexual adventures. However, as they say, never say never until you experience it!

He left me alone in Mexico

The experiences of our reader Sabina (29) predestined her to become a wife, quickly give birth to children and lead a classic married life alongside one partner, her husband. However, she did not expect that fate decided to weave into her life someone who would really spice it up for her. On last year’s vacation with her still current boyfriend, Mário, she experienced something that she did not expect at all. “That vacation was supposed to be our dream come true, Mexico. I was very much looking forward to spending two beautiful, exotic weeks there, full of surprises, but especially together. Mario was already busy with work when we started dating a few years ago. But over time, he became a workaholic. He promised me this holiday. Imagine my surprise when he told me in the middle of it in that paradise that he had to leave because of unexpected complications in the company.” Although Sabina asked him not to leave, and even cried like a small child, it didn’t help, work came first again.

A replacement program she wouldn’t have expected

At one point, she wanted to pack up and go home on the nearest possible flight. But then something broke in her and she told herself that this was her dream after all and she wasn’t going to let her vacation be ruined. So instead of packing, she threw herself on seductively and decided to go to an evening hotel party. Although she only planned to drink away her disappointment with Mario, but in her best dress, which the devil didn’t want, she had no shortage of men that evening. But one impressed her more than the others, a typical female heartbreaker from a typical Mexican telenovela. “When I saw that man, I got an irresistible urge to find out what it would be like with him. I always thought of myself as one of those faithful women, one for life and things like that, but you never know until you get the chance. Lured by the alcohol, the atmosphere, I fell into it without much resistance. Well, it wasn’t just a one-off, but we spent every single day and night together until the end of my vacation. I don’t know why, but I felt that we were both somehow sorry, but we just quietly said goodbye, made love for the last time and I flew home to reality,” reveals Sabina.

Somehow it was impossible to forget

“If you expected that I had any remorse at home with Mario, then in vain. He pretended to be nothing, as if everything was forgotten, and nothing had happened. Somehow I didn’t feel sorry for it. I don’t know why, but we continued in that relationship despite everything. Although a lot of time has passed, I keep going back to that one week in my memories, which I didn’t even tell my best friend about,” she continues. As it happens in life, there is only one surprise. One such thing awaited her in the mail on the social network, which read: “I can’t forget you, I want to be with you again.” Go back to Mexico…” Along with that, there were other things that impressed Sabina so much that today, almost a year later, she is thinking of buying a ticket to Mexico indefinitely. “Whether I recapitulate my life from any angle, the idea of packing up and trying it appeals to me more and more. Even if it doesn’t work out, I can’t even live with Mario anymore in a relationship that doesn’t give me anything,” concludes Sabina, hoping that something better awaits her, whatever she decides.