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Open About Female Orgasm: 4 Ways to Achieve It Revealed

Several thousand women, several thousand interviews, one female orgasm and four techniques how women can achieve it. This has been elaborated by the latest study, which breaks the false image promoted by the media and the pornographic industry, according to which the mere penetration of the vagina by the penis is guaranteed to lead to orgasm.

According to international sexual and reproductive organizations, sexual satisfaction, sexual pleasure and excitement, the ability to increase excitement and enjoy sex in general, is a basic human right, not just a solution to a psychological or health problem.

Research shows that the more women can enjoy sex, the happier, more satisfied they are, have lower stress levels, experience less anxiety and depression, and are more satisfied in their relationship because they experience better intimacy. A positive sexual experience and the right to it can also be found in their declarations on sexual rights. But how is it in reality?

Porn, fake porn…

Currently, young people rely on pornographic content and the depiction and explanation of sex through pornography due to the absence of sex education (if it is not absent, then young people are not satisfied with its content). And this is a mistake due to its exposure and unreality (as we mentioned in previous articles), escalating violence and orientation towards a male audience, i.e. purely male needs and fantasies (sex is not a “one-way ticket”).

If you look at previous research, they claim that only 25-30% of women achieve orgasm during sexual intercourse – but they do not distinguish between penetration and ways of stimulating the clitoris, which comes out as the key to achieving sexual pleasure and orgasm.

57% versus 95%? Orgasm in women and men

To begin with, a survey conducted by Cosmopolitan magazine (a sample of more than 2,300 women aged 18-40, 2015):

  • 57% of women confirmed that they reach orgasm every time or most of the time during sex with their partner, but 95% of men reach orgasm every time or most of the time during sex with their partner. The most common obstacles are: 50% of women are “almost there, but I can’t get past the last step to orgasm”, 38% of women talk about insufficient clitoral stimulation, 35% of women about “wrong” clitoral stimulation from their partner and 32% of women are “too much in their own head ” or makes sure they look good during sex
  • 78% of women believed that partners care about achieving orgasm, but 72% of men work their way to orgasm without helping women achieve theirs
  • 33% of women did not fake an orgasm, 67% did. To the question “why”, they answered: 28% of women because of their partner and his feelings (so that he doesn’t feel bad, but feels satisfied), 27% of women because of a faster end to sex, because they felt that they would not reach orgasm, 42% of women gave both of these options and 3% of women entered “other reasons”
  • When asked how women achieve orgasm, they answered: 39% of women by masturbating with a hand or a sex toy, 20% of women by vaginal penetration and clitoral stimulation, 15% of women by penetration without stimulation, 12% of women by oral sex, 9% of women by their partner’s hand, 2 % of women with a sex toy in the hands of their partner and 3% of women stated “another way”
  • Age at first orgasm was given by women as follows: 9.5% of women were less than 11 years old, 14% 11-13 years old, 19% 14-16 years old, 27% 17-19 years old, 18% 20-24 years old, 4% of women 25-29 years old, 1% 30-34 years old, 0.5% 35-40 years old and 7% of women did not remember

By stimulating the clitoris for more intense sexual pleasure…

In another study (2017), they examined the orgasms of American women aged 18-94. The results showed that for 18.4% of the women interviewed, penetration of the vagina with the penis alone was enough to achieve orgasm, for 36.6% of women penetration alone was not enough, stimulation of the clitoris was also necessary, and 36% of women said that stimulation was not necessary during penetration, but sexual pleasure, excitement and orgasm itself were better and more intense with her.

One of the authors of Psychology Today, psychologist, sex therapist and professor at the University of Florida, Laurie Mintz, conducted a similar survey among her students. 43% of them confirmed that they achieve orgasm during sexual intercourse by stimulating the clitoris, 34% achieve it only by stimulating the clitoris, 19% achieve orgasm rarely, if at all, and only 4% of female students need sexual intercourse, i.e. penile penetration, to achieve it. This is quite an important result.

… but what is the clitoris?

The problem is that few people are interested in what a woman’s vagina actually looks like, what it is made of, which parts make up the clitoris, where are the nerve endings, the stimulation of which can increase a woman’s excitement. Then we should not be surprised that according to the WHO, 8-21% of women experience pain during penile penetration.

The clitoris is not just a protrusion visible to the eye, but an organ extending deep into the vagina. It consists of 18 parts – a mix of muscles, nerves and erectile tissues, all of which work together during arousal. Its length is 7-12 cm and during excitement it swells and increases up to 50-300%. Many doctors believe that the G-spot is only part of it.

The clitoris contains an average of 8,000 nerve endings (twice the number of nerve endings in the penis). Other nerve endings sensitive to touch also include other external parts of the female genitalia, i.e. the vulva – the inner lips and the entrance to the vagina.

And the first third of the vaginal canal also contains them, which does not mean that the other two thirds are not sensitive endings, they just react more to pressure, which explains why many women like the feeling of a penis or a sex toy in the vagina.

4 techniques to achieve orgasm

Plos One magazine published the latest research this year, which took a rather (until then) unconventional look at achieving orgasm (during penetration): first it interviewed 4,270 women aged 18-plus from around the world to pinpoint the four most important techniques, then it focused on American women (3017 women aged 18-93, online research) to verify practices:

  • About 70% of women stimulate the clitoris with a finger or a sex toy during the penetration of the vagina with the penis (or sex toy).
  • About 76% of women move their penis or sex toy in such a way that it rubs (stimulates) against the clitoris, constantly during the entire penetration, while the penis remains inside the vagina, so there is no penetration – by moving in and out
  • About 84% of women concentrate on penetration only at the point of entry into the vagina (so-called shallow penetration) – with a finger, tip of the penis, tongue, lips, sex toy (excitement, subsequent penetration into the vagina, or orgasm, women described as more pleasurable and satisfying )
  • About 88% of women “rotate”, turn, raise or lower their hips/pelvis during penetration to influence/accommodate the friction of the penis, sex toy. It was about the position and angle of a woman’s hips as a way to achieve greater sexual excitement and orgasm

The results show that the clitoris is key. Three of the four techniques involve stimulation of the clitoris, and during penetration, women intensify their sexual excitement by applying pressure to the inner clitoris. These findings are all the more important because they disprove the “myth” created by pornographic images, according to which women can achieve intense orgasms only by penile penetration or toys.

They are also important for the support of women who are unhappy with the inability to reach orgasm just from penetration. Orgasm can be achieved in different, different ways than is widely advertised and portrayed. Therefore, it is better to focus on getting to know your own body, communicating your sexual needs and walking proudly and confidently towards their fulfillment.

From the men’s point of view: Do you want to please him? Every guy craves these positions when making love

If sex was a tool for reproduction, it wouldn’t matter in what position it took place. Today, however, it is a source of divine joy, a loving fusion of two lovers, a play of bodies and an instrument of pleasure. And choosing the right position determines how satisfied the guy will be with him.

Lotus flower

Like the Buddha, the common man also achieves near-enlightenment in this position. The basis is that he sits on a chair or bed, you hug him with your thighs and sit on his erect limb. It is a more physically demanding position for a woman, but the other half will enjoy it all the more.

He can play with your breasts, kiss you on the face, hug you like his greatest treasure, and at the same time you will not stop fucking with everything. However, in this position it is a little difficult to operate interrupted intercourse. Rarely is the unraveling fast enough and therefore it is nice to combine it with a condom or a reliable form of contraception.

Woman up

The difference between men and women is manifested both in life and in bed. However, there is one position that creates prerequisites for mutual symbiosis. The riding position is top for both women and men.

But only if the partner really controls it. The gentlemen want to see her in action. How they are crazy about their sex, happy, their love itself, and they just calmly wash with pleasure and enjoy the pleasant feelings and the passionate erotic theater.


If men didn’t like her, her first place in the most used list would be in jeopardy. It is not a simple position to find love among men. Simple things can go wrong the fastest.

A guy will appreciate the most if you are full of activity with the missionary, you touch his ass, stimulate his rhythm, you can even show him your breasts. In principle, it does not matter how you understand the position, but it is true that activity equals attraction, passivity equals disinterest.


Exceptionally intense game of two bodies. The partner lies on his back, but his shoulders and head are slightly hanging away from the bed. Practically the whole activity is up to you, but the head pointing down allows you to glide over the body as perfectly as during a nude nuru massage. It is equally beautiful for both of you if you exchange afterwards.


A bit of a hunting position, in which the partner simply steps up to the partner from behind, leans her against the kitchen counter or the wall in the living room, and starts focusing on her strengths from behind. Men love this position for an animal version of the quickie. At work, at home or on a trip. Therefore, they will be very pleasantly surprised if their partner does not put on their panties here and there.

From behind

Why do they adore her so much? Similar to standing, they are excited by the possibility of conquering their lover. However, the possibility of a more comfortable position and better activity on the part of the woman also comes into play here. At the same time, it is a bit more relaxed and slower than standing, but it still has the adrenaline of wildness, although with a flavor of greater intimacy.

Men revealed which women were the most unfaithful to them: You can have great sex with them, but even that is not a guarantee

Not only men are unfaithful, women can also be beautiful bastards sometimes. You can have great sex with them, but even that is not a guarantee that you will be the only one by their side.

Good sex is immediately reflected in a man’s mood, and most of them do not hide the fact that they need it for life. They are also disappointed from time to time, and the woman they looked up to can go behind their back. Not even great sex is a guarantee that it doesn’t happen.

You can have great sex with them, but even that is not a guarantee

While many times the first sign that something is up is when a woman stops sleeping with you, this may not always be the case. Even women, with whom men had perfect sexual pleasures, led them by the nose and over time found out that they were taking turns in bed with someone else. Here are their experiences.

Men revealed which women were the most unfaithful to them

“I had a great career but no relationship. When I found my partner, I wanted to treat her to everything I could afford to buy her. I noticed that we always had really mega good sex then. That’s why I was happy to give her a present. But over time, it wasn’t enough for her and she started hooking me, the originally ordinary woman, with an even richer guy,” adds Roman (40) with a smile today.

“I didn’t know that I had a boyfriend by my side who was talking to my friends behind my back. Over time, I realized that she was always a flighty type who needed to socialize and visit all her friends in the evening, hug and kiss them,” confided Peter (35), who thanks to this understood what type of woman he did not want to have by his side .

“The more I earned, the more my girlfriend began to turn into an artifice. As if she was afraid that she was in danger from the other women. However, I had no idea that he would go even further and flirt with each of my friends. Finally, one of my best friends succumbed to her and I have since deleted both of them from my life,” added Mario (44) at the end.

3 tips you must master to make your sex much more exciting: This is how you and your significant other will enjoy

If you want to spice up your sex life, a few small changes are enough, but they can really do a lot. See what to bet on in the field of intimacy.

Learn to talk openly and regularly about sex with your partner

Talking about sex in a new relationship can be difficult to start because you may feel embarrassed. However, if sex does not satisfy you, communication with your partner will help you. An honest heart-to-heart will encourage both of you to open up and share your feelings.

In order for this conversation to be effective and not a source of arguments, you should not moralize your partner or blame him for anything. Gently explain what you want, not what your partner is doing wrong. Believe that it is the first and fundamental point that will take your sex life to a higher level.

But choose the right time for this conversation. It can be at breakfast, in the bathroom or in bed. It is important that you both take your time and be in a good mood.

Try dirty talk

The sexiest organ in our body is the brain, because sexual desire arises in it. That’s why dirty talk, or talking about sex in an obscene way, is so exciting. All you have to do is treat yourself to it occasionally, which will spice up sex in a different way.

Indulge in aphrodisiac foods

Food and sex are two basic human needs. It’s no surprise that people like to combine the two for greater pleasure.

An aphrodisiac is any product that stimulates and increases libido. Chocolate, oysters, avocado, red pepper, ginseng, honey, strawberries and nuts are considered the best aphrodisiac foods.

You can have the most perfect sex: One thing a man will never tell you, he will only confide in his lover

Although men know how to appreciate quality sex with pleasure, they still hide something as a taboo. Even after the most perfect sex, they won’t tell one thing, only the lovers will always find out.

Whether we like it or not, lovers are for a man sometimes like a confessional for believers. What men say to a lover, they don’t even say to their best friend. This is also why many guides to perfect sex are based on the statements of lovers.

You can have the most perfect sex

You may think you have the most perfect sex with your man, which can be true and often is, but men keep some secrets to themselves. And for a lover.

One thing a man will never tell you, he will always only confide in his lover

Their sexual fantasies very often go further than women think, and they never dare to tell or hint at it. One reason is that they would be ashamed of it in front of their wife, and another reason is that they prefer to keep their wild fantasy for a woman with whom they have no emotional connection.

“My secret dream is for a woman to be a dominatrix in bed. It is clear to me that I cannot want this from my wife, with whom I have a son. That’s also why this idea is more appealing with an unknown woman, whom I would never see again in my life and would not threaten my marriage,” revealed Filip (35).

“What I would like to try with my girlfriend sometime is anal sex. I know her opinion, so I never even told her about it. However, I often have ideas about what it feels like,” Michal (29) revealed his taboo.

“For me, it’s clearly lesbian sex. This is what I would like to experience in my life and preferably if it were my girlfriend, which I probably won’t get to see at the moment. I can’t imagine talking her out of it,” Jakub (38) added with a smile at the end.

These women are considered goddesses by men: Who has a magical aura for them and they can’t resist it?

Which women do guys find the absolute most attractive? And what adds to their attractiveness in their eyes? They revealed it themselves.

Grace, tenderness and fragility with a dose of mystery win

Some women seem to have a strange aura about them. When they appear in the presence of men, they are immediately attracted to them. They know exactly what to say, how to react in situations. Even their gestures seem attractive. What do men perceive really intensely in this regard?

Beauty is an important factor, but it is not as important as you might think. I adore women who are gentle, gentle at first glance. And they exude natural grace and fragility. This is something I simply cannot resist. Yes, big lips, a nice ass and a figure are great, but they are not what I notice in a woman if I am serious about her. It is that charm that plays a big role. (John 28)

For me, the embodiment of the goddess is a woman who is a woman. I feel that nowadays women are extremely self-confident, independent and more masculine than they should be. The delicacy is lost from them and that’s a shame. That’s what gets us men, and I have a feeling I’m not the only one who thinks so. My friends feel that way too. (Self, 31)

For me it is mystery and tenderness. Those are the two attributes that women who immediately attract me have. It simply radiates from them. Really, even if you don’t realize it, you just have this all around you and yes, it affects us guys more than you probably think. (Matthew, 33)

Do you have an infidel by your side? These things will betray him

Many of us encounter infidelity in relationships regularly. Whether we have experienced it firsthand or mediated by friends, one thing remains. You can spot a cheater long before he breaks your heart.

Although it may sound paradoxical, relationship boundaries play a key role in infidelity

Cheating itself is defined as an act of emotional or physical unfaithfulness to a partner. There are several different reasons why people commit infidelity such as physical, online, financial or emotional. Cheating falls into a dark area that, if not talked about, often affects the relationship in a negative way.

Although it may sound paradoxical, infidelity plays a key role in relation to the boundaries of the relationship and of course also what the consequences are if these boundaries are violated. What one person may consider cheating is not necessarily the same in another relationship.

There are many signs that indicate that your partner is cheating on you. But one of the most important and significant indicators is instinct. You shouldn’t ignore that one. Changes often manifest in emotional and physical distance, leading to a disconnect between the two of you.

1. You notice fundamental changes in communication

We are all busy, stressed and overreacting to ourselves from time to time. However, if a guy is unfaithful to you, the change in communication will begin to take on a different tone.

It will be ignoring, it will stop engaging you in the normal dialogues you used to have, it will start focusing on everything outside of you. It will simply leave you completely out of the communication sphere of interest.

2. Begins to make more significant changes in routines

We all have routines we follow to create the lifestyle we want. When you are in a relationship, you get used to it with your partner as well. But if his changes significantly, it’s time to pay attention.

Ask yourself: Has anything changed with his routine? If so, what has changed and how significant is this change? Sometimes the changes are subtle, so they may not be noticeable at first. However, it is the first indication that something seems to be happening.

3. He takes more care of himself

Most people focus on some form of self-care, such as physical activity at the beginning of the year or as the summer months approach. That’s understandable.

However, if your partner suddenly dresses differently, changes perfume, pays more attention to his appearance, maybe it’s time to ask or think about this behavior.

4. He becomes more critical of you

We all have some traits that are less than ideal, whether in behavior or physically. But when your friend starts criticizing you about things that didn’t bother him before, a light bulb should turn on in your head again.

It could mean that he is cheating on you. Therefore, it is good to be aware of and accept changes in this sphere.

5. He starts to have secrets

He used to have no problem talking to you about everything, you had access to his phone, computer, or diary. When there is a change in this, it does not bode well.

There are men who guard their privacy in this sphere from the beginning, but the problem arises when this change happens out of the blue.

Three signs whose lives will change before the end of 2023: Something they didn’t even expect will happen

The end of the year is approaching and with it new expectations from the new. If you thought that nothing revolutionary could happen, you are wrong. These three signs will experience something they didn’t expect.

The end of 2023 is almost upon us, and before the gates of the new one open for us, many of us tend to recapitulate. Don’t close your year yet, you never know what might happen at the end of the year. Sometimes even things that you don’t count on at all and situations or emotions that you wouldn’t expect will take over you.

Aries (21.3. – 20.4.)

All year long, Aries feels that it needs change and strives for it with gradual steps. Even if it doesn’t seem like it at first glance, in order to take a significant step in their life, they usually need someone else. New housing and a joint household with a partner can open a new chapter in their lives, which they will enter during the next year.

Gemini (May 21 – June 20)

Geminis are uncontrollable souls, they make their own way and no one can talk them into it. The only one who can calm them down is a loving partner. At the end of the year, a period full of deeper feelings awaits them, the realization that life is not only about themselves, but also about the family. They will find the meaning of life precisely in solid foundations and understand that this is what can strengthen them the most on the path to success.

Scorpio (October 23 – November 22)

Scorpios need a successful career for their lives and to be as high as possible in the social ladder. They strive to achieve high positions, and the end of the year will offer them new opportunities. It may seem like the cards are dealt, but they are not. Scorpio can look forward to new, lucrative offers that he should consider. The more successful he feels at work, the more he believes in himself in his private life.

Forget boredom in bed: These sexual practices can perfectly banish it

You can return the spark and passion to your relationship quite easily. You just need to know how to do it. However, some things work literally miraculously. Implement them in your bedroom and believe that you will definitely not be bored in bed.

Actively work to keep your sex life fresh

A study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology found that couples who believe that a healthy sex life takes work are much more satisfied with sex and relationships than those who believe that good sex should happen naturally. Researchers have found that having an implicit belief that sex should be good if you find the right partner is simply inaccurate. Those who believed in this kind of sexual destiny were more likely to experience a downward trend in their intimacy and connection and to become bored in the relationship much more quickly.

Sex life is like a garden. In order to maintain it, you need to water it and take care of it. So if you want to avoid boredom in the bedroom and outside, remember that good sex takes work,” revealed the lead author of the study, Jessica Maxwell.

Kiss during and especially before sex

Kissing is important because it helps couples connect and ultimately stay together. It releases oxytocin, the love hormone, and also helps reduce the stress hormone cortisol, so couples usually feel relaxed and at ease right after a good kiss. If you make it a point to kiss each other, your hormones will pretty much do the bonding work for you. It’s so simple yet effective.

There is nothing wrong with getting too comfortable in your relationship. It just means you’ve made it really far. But if you don’t want boredom to cause problems in the bedroom, according to science, you can prevent it by switching things up and showing more affection before the act itself.

Change the scene

If you only have sex in the bedroom, try changing the space to spice it up. Explore a new room in the house, spread the word in the garden or book a room at a nearby hotel. A change of location will add newness and freshness to the experience, making it more enjoyable for both of you.

Try a different kind of sexual intimacy

If you are already bored with the most interesting positions during traditional sex, try to take a break and focus on mutual pleasure through touch and taste. Doing so will allow you to slow down and focus on each other’s pleasure, increasing your desire and giving you the opportunity to rediscover the magic of mutual arousal.

Share your feelings

When you first fell in love, you probably told your partner that you loved them. But as relationships continue, people often forget to show their partners love and appreciation in the same way they did in the beginning, which can lead to feelings of underappreciation and dissatisfaction that translate into a poor experience in the bedroom.

Make it a point to tell your partner how much you want them, appreciate them and describe in detail the reasons why you love them. This will deepen your emotional connection and stir things up in bed.

Erotic short stories: I reacted to my husband’s infidelity by starting a rivalry with his lover.

My husband’s lover paradoxically awakened a woman in me that I had no idea was hiding inside me. Sometimes infidelity really can save your marriage.

Mária (30) had known about her husband Milan’s infidelity for a long time. “A man can try to cover his tracks as much as he can, but a woman will always sense such things. Who knows, maybe we really have a sixth sense for the infidelity of our partners”, he states. Although most women who find out that their partner is cheating on them directly confront him, Mária was the opposite case. She always belonged to women who were pragmatic rather than emotional. Or better said, she was able to keep her cool even in tense situations. Discovering her husband’s infidelity was definitely one of them. Her reaction was also more pragmatic, but perhaps incomprehensible to many women…

“I knew two things… That divorce was out of the question, and that if I didn’t want to lose him, I’d have to take his lover out of the game. So I decided to play with the same weapons as my girlfriend. She went to the most exclusive underwear store in town, cooked an incredibly delicious dinner, armed herself with courage and an erotic mood, which I tried to bring into the whole house. When my husband came home, he was surprised, but I also saw a kind of curiosity in his eyes. That strengthened me in my decision”, Mária surprises with her tactics and courage.

After they had dinner together by candlelight, she led her husband to the bathroom, where a hot bath and massage awaited him. Then she made him lie on the bed and tied his hands and feet. “I put on some erotic music and started dancing, gradually shedding everything until I was left with only high heels. It was a strange feeling since it was the first time I had done something like this, but Milan’s instant erection only confirmed that it was going in the right direction. Then I covered his eyes and worked my way from his face to his manhood. I have to admit that I enjoyed it too”, she confides further.

After some time, which Mária tried to fill with various erotic games, she discovered that he still did not give up on his lover. So she decided on a rather radical step. “I said to myself, better with a trio than without him. So I admitted to him that I knew about her and that I wanted us to share it in a threesome. You should have seen his face. But when he decided that I was serious, we met at our house the next evening. I wasn’t even nervous. When it came down to it, I was in a trance. I found that I just enjoy it like no sex before. Since then, these meetings of ours have been repeated quite often. Well, my husband and I are doing great without her. I even found out that apart from our three, their two no longer exists. Although I had to chew on something, I didn’t lose my husband, and to top it all off, I enriched our sex life. It was worth it”, Mária concludes her truly unusual story.

Thanks to one interesting experience from last year’s vacation, I want to do something crazy this summer…

Sabina was never one of those women who would seek out sexual adventures. However, as they say, never say never until you experience it!

He left me alone in Mexico

The experiences of our reader Sabina (29) predestined her to become a wife, quickly give birth to children and lead a classic married life alongside one partner, her husband. However, she did not expect that fate decided to weave into her life someone who would really spice it up for her. On last year’s vacation with her still current boyfriend, Mário, she experienced something that she did not expect at all. “That vacation was supposed to be our dream come true, Mexico. I was very much looking forward to spending two beautiful, exotic weeks there, full of surprises, but especially together. Mario was already busy with work when we started dating a few years ago. But over time, he became a workaholic. He promised me this holiday. Imagine my surprise when he told me in the middle of it in that paradise that he had to leave because of unexpected complications in the company.” Although Sabina asked him not to leave, and even cried like a small child, it didn’t help, work came first again.

A replacement program she wouldn’t have expected

At one point, she wanted to pack up and go home on the nearest possible flight. But then something broke in her and she told herself that this was her dream after all and she wasn’t going to let her vacation be ruined. So instead of packing, she threw herself on seductively and decided to go to an evening hotel party. Although she only planned to drink away her disappointment with Mario, but in her best dress, which the devil didn’t want, she had no shortage of men that evening. But one impressed her more than the others, a typical female heartbreaker from a typical Mexican telenovela. “When I saw that man, I got an irresistible urge to find out what it would be like with him. I always thought of myself as one of those faithful women, one for life and things like that, but you never know until you get the chance. Lured by the alcohol, the atmosphere, I fell into it without much resistance. Well, it wasn’t just a one-off, but we spent every single day and night together until the end of my vacation. I don’t know why, but I felt that we were both somehow sorry, but we just quietly said goodbye, made love for the last time and I flew home to reality,” reveals Sabina.

Somehow it was impossible to forget

“If you expected that I had any remorse at home with Mario, then in vain. He pretended to be nothing, as if everything was forgotten, and nothing had happened. Somehow I didn’t feel sorry for it. I don’t know why, but we continued in that relationship despite everything. Although a lot of time has passed, I keep going back to that one week in my memories, which I didn’t even tell my best friend about,” she continues. As it happens in life, there is only one surprise. One such thing awaited her in the mail on the social network, which read: “I can’t forget you, I want to be with you again.” Go back to Mexico…” Along with that, there were other things that impressed Sabina so much that today, almost a year later, she is thinking of buying a ticket to Mexico indefinitely. “Whether I recapitulate my life from any angle, the idea of packing up and trying it appeals to me more and more. Even if it doesn’t work out, I can’t even live with Mario anymore in a relationship that doesn’t give me anything,” concludes Sabina, hoping that something better awaits her, whatever she decides.

First date: We bring you 6 tips on how to succeed

Your first date is approaching and your heart starts pounding with nervousness? This is understandable; after all, the first impression is the most important, and a good first date can eventually result in a lasting relationship. We conducted a survey among our members and bring you 6 useful tips on how not to mess up your first date.

Don’t underestimate the preparation for the first date

They say that clothes make a person, and there is probably no one who has not considered the most appropriate outfit for a first date. It’s best to be yourself and three quarters of our members would choose clothes that they feel good in and that fit them. But beware: definitely not sweatpants or dungarees…

For more than 90 percent of the respondents, the first meeting is very important.

Before going on your first date, invite a friend to your home and evaluate the selected clothing together. A critical look from someone you know is never harmful and will help to gain distance.

The first meeting in the apartment is taboo

Inviting someone to your home for a first date means dating suicide, so you will definitely not miss choosing a suitable place. Cafes (44% of respondents) and restaurants (22%) remain the undisputed classics, but there are also other options.

Places like cinemas, theaters or clubs are not the best place for a first date. If a couple just sits quietly next to each other on a first date, or the music drowns them out, it is difficult to learn more about each other.

Talk about what you enjoy

According to the Czech coach Hana Wolf, naturalness is very important for a relationship, and activities that you enjoy and fulfill are equally important. “So if you talk about what you like, you can easily find out how much you have in common. If you find that you don’t have much in common, there is still plenty of room to back out of the relationship,” adds the coach.

Be careful about paying

You should make it clear to the waiter that you intend to pay for yourself. If the other party insists on paying for both – it does not mean that you owe someone anything.

85% of users want to pay the bill for themselves, and at the first meeting you should not be arrogant to the service in any case.

Give yourself at least half an hour

It always takes two for a first date, both parties look forward to meeting each other and devote their free time to it. If you meet someone who does not meet your expectations of a partner, do not panic and spend at least half an hour.

As many as 57% of respondents in the case of lack of interest, and thus a failed date, do not say anything and show their lack of interest only indirectly.

Speak the truth

According to coach Wolf, we shouldn’t try to beautify our profession: “If someone doesn’t want you the way you are, it’s simply not worth it.”

The most important final advice: Don’t forget to arrive on time, because nothing poisons the other person like a long wait filled with the nervousness of the first meeting. An indicator of a successful date is a kiss, which you would receive from almost 70 percent of the respondents. Good luck!

This is why you are afraid of love based on your sign

Are you egotistical, insecure or do you have a comfort zone? This is your love horoscope, which you are so afraid of based on your sign.


You are sometimes egotistical, selfish and you mainly want your own needs, and you feel that you have neither time nor energy to give attention and love to someone else. One of your fears is that when it comes to love, it can rob you of the freedom you love so much. You are afraid of losing your routine and comfort zone.

Love can scare you because it might show your true self, which you really don’t want. You want to have a safe, but at the same time simple relationship without problems, in which you will not give much. You fear love too much, which complicates your life.


You are stubborn and you go your own way. Your comfort is the worst thing that prevents you from having a normal and fulfilling relationship. You don’t like to invest in it more than it is beyond your comfort zone. You’d rather spend your time building walls than fighting for love, and you’re very skeptical about it. You don’t believe much in true love and prefer to focus on your friends and family, who you put your energy into.

If you let someone close to you, it has to be someone special and you don’t want to spend time with someone you won’t be with anyway.


You are afraid of love because of the fear of being too limited and you are a very unpredictable person. You can’t stay anywhere long enough and you say you still have time for love. That’s why even if someone were to come into your life, you say that he’s not the right one and you’d rather write him off sooner so you can plan something with him.

What you fear most is the silence that love brings. You thrive on experience and change, and fear that the stability a relationship would bring would only mean boredom.


You are the most loving sign in the zodiac. You care about others and are not afraid to show your sensitivity. And that’s exactly why you’re afraid of love, because you feel that it will be rejected or that it won’t be reciprocated enough from the other side. You choose your partner very strictly, but you fall in love really quickly.

You are not satisfied with average love and consider it as the most important aspect of your life, so you can be disappointed if someone gives priority to career instead of love.


You admire everything that has to do with love. You love to talk about love and can fall in love very quickly. You are the most devoted sign of the zodiac, capable of sacrificing everything. However, you fear insecurity and the fact that your partner does not pay you as much attention as you would like.

You also don’t like the feeling that someone has power over you, so you are very careful about who you fall in love with. However, if you allow someone to be in your life, he is a truly happy person.


You have your protective walls that no one can climb. You are a big introvert and you don’t let anyone into your life. Your pursuit of perfectionism and fulfilling your own standards prevents you from realizing that you are worthy of love. You need someone you can trust, but on the other hand, you are afraid of losing everything for love.

You are afraid of advice and if you get burned in love, you withdraw and it is difficult for anyone to reach you. You know who you are, and that’s why it’s sometimes difficult for someone to meet all your requirements regarding a relationship.


You want to have a deep and meaningful relationship, but sometimes you don’t know how to go about it. Like Virgo, you are also aware of your mistakes and know everything about yourself, so few people will surprise you. You are very perceptive and expect the same from your partner. You are a very calm person and you are afraid when there are problems in the relationship that you cannot solve.

You are so afraid of loneliness that sometimes you don’t know if you love someone just so you won’t be alone, and that’s why you think about it more than is appropriate.


You have an innate fear of loss and betrayal, which is why you are very careful about love. You are naturally distrustful. You are very intense and proactive, and everything in your life must have meaning, and of course that also applies to love. You are calm and soulful, and others perceive you as a cold, emotionless person, which is not true.

You seem cold, but if you fall in love, you can give yourself away and expect the same from the other person.


You are energetic and you must experience love throughout your life. You live off it. You breathe from her. But what you want more than love is intense experience and adventure. For you, a boring life means that you are not living at all. You are afraid of love because you are afraid of boring or boring someone else. You want to experience excitement and excitement on a daily basis and you are afraid that you would settle for this routine that comes with love.

You are an idealist and when it comes to love, you fear that you will get into a routine with the wrong person that will be difficult to get out of.


You have tremendous self-control, you are responsible, focused and disciplined. You are afraid of love because it seems unpredictable and you don’t like to suffer very much. You have to have a plan and that’s why love sometimes causes you more problems. You are very cautious and hate to lose control of your life. You hate failure in life or in love, and even if you are a realist, you can put on rose-colored glasses and let yourself be obsessed with love.

For you, love is an investment, where you devote your efforts, time, and therefore you need to constantly get it back.


You push love away because you are too impatient to play emotional games. You want to know what’s going on between you and him right now. You hate the uncomfortable insecurity you feel. But love requires time, which you do not like to sacrifice for someone with whom you are not sure.

You always feel very insecure and anxious about going on a date with someone. You are not sure of yourself and sometimes you don’t know what to expect from yourself, so sometimes you don’t even want to hurt the other person.


You push love away because you have incredibly unrealistic expectations. You define love as butterflies in your stomach and bliss. However, you are afraid that you will never find an ideal partner who will understand you and appreciate your individuality. You don’t want to be in a relationship where you’re not yourself. You don’t want a classic relationship, but a full-fledged and romantic one that will last a lifetime.

Nechceš mať lásku ako všetci ostatní a nechápeš, ako je niekto vo vzťahu len so samoty. Si veľmi individuálna osobnosť, ktorá to isté očakáva aj od toho druhého.

I had the best sex of my life with a man I (didn’t) want to: This revelation says it all

I never quite understood women who couldn’t control themselves because of some guy, they primitively succumbed to their impulses and didn’t care if the man was engaged or not.

Like son, like father

Until something similar happened to me. But the case where it was “just someone else’s partner” would be a bit simpler. However, I fell in love not only with the husband, but also with my friend’s father. So, you can imagine the struggle when you have to meet someone who is extremely, almost fanatically, attracted to you, but on the other hand, you know that you can’t have anything with that person… That is, until you find out that his sympathies are the same as yours.

Michal, my new friend was amazing. We met at a company party. At first we took everything for granted, we didn’t care about our status, we enjoyed each other. After dating for six months, we somehow decided to move things on. We started living together, getting to know each other’s friends and, of course, our parents. And the first day when I met his people was fateful for me. At first glance, his father was not only very handsome, but also a gentleman, incredibly funny and wise. He was simply a slightly better version of Michal. Already at the first meeting, I felt how he was looking at me. But in a different way than fathers usually look at their sons’ new girlfriends. And I looked at him the same way. Every time our eyes met, I felt like I was blushing like a teenager. I’ve never felt anything like that with any man right from the start.

The game has begun

The first weeks after meeting Michal’s father were very difficult for me. We met every weekend for lunch together, and I could feel the sympathy between me and his father only growing. After a month, we even managed to switch to inconspicuous fleeting touches, which turned me on incredibly. Until each time I was more and more afraid that it was about me. However, his father and I have never said anything privately, nor have we called or written to each other. It was basically our game, but it could have ended in a complete disaster.

I couldn’t resist

I will never forget the day we had our first sex. It was unexpected, and it was at a family celebration. Michal’s sister celebrated her birthday and the whole family gathered in his parents’ big house. I was looking forward to the celebration mainly because of his father, so I threw myself into it accordingly. From the beginning, it went exactly as I expected. Seductive glances, fleeting and especially inconspicuous touches… But I never dreamed that it would all begin on this very day. Michal’s father caught me at the opposite end of their house, where he was literally waiting for me. He took me to the guest bathroom and started kissing me passionately. I didn’t resist in any way, on the contrary, I let him know that this is exactly what I want. The fact that we could be caught at any moment made it even more exciting. But it wasn’t just about kisses. He passionately and violently threw up my clothes, ripped off my panties and penetrated me with such energy that I felt like I was going to explode at any moment. Those minutes of pleasure were the best of my life. After this quickie, we quietly returned to the party, but we still didn’t exchange a word in private.

The danger grew more and more

Monday after the celebration, I received an email in which he wrote to me. He wanted to meet again. I knew it was bad, wrong and reprehensible, but I didn’t care. I didn’t hesitate and immediately made another appointment with him. And then another, and another… We met secretly for more than six months. I didn’t think about what would happen, whether someone might discover us. I loved Michal, but sex with his father, as well as him, even more. Our meetings escalated and became more and more intense, and the possibility of being discovered also increased. That’s exactly what happened. When I least expected it. Resp. at all. One evening I brought my work home. I wasn’t feeling well, so I was working from my bed, when Michal joined me and I had to jump back for a second, he borrowed mine to count. I had just opened the mails and he was quite suspicious that I had so many from his father. They opened them and began to read. When I returned to the room, I knew what time it was. I wasn’t ready for it, I’m just still there like a pillar of salt and she actually convicted herself by that silence. That evening, Michal ran to see his father, who confessed to him. They agreed that if we ended it immediately, they wouldn’t tell his mother. That’s what happened. I broke up with Michal, she never saw his father again in her life. Not that I didn’t want to, but it was enough that I destroyed my relationship, I didn’t want his parents’ marriage either. It was time to do the right thing and start controlling yourself.

Erotic short stories: This spiced up our relationship with my husband: One night in an unconventional place was all it took!

I thought our marriage would end like hundreds of others. Then my husband came up with this suggestion…

We have been together for more than six years, we have one child, and responsibilities that prevent us from finding time to spend together. See you in the morning at breakfast, and then an hour or two before bed.

He heads a large department, I am the director of the institution. We are simply so busy that there has been no time for sex lately. I think we are not alone in this, and therefore we do not complain, we just accepted it as a fact that we will hardly change in the near future.

One morning everything changed…

I arrived at work, where an envelope with information about my work trip was waiting for me on my desk. It was supposed to be for the weekend, and it looked like a surprise from my staff. Apparently, I don’t have to take anything, it will just be a classic meeting with our client, after which I will have time for myself, sights, and rest. Even when I tried to find out who it was, they didn’t tell me anything. I’m sure I’ll be excited about the new collaboration. The husband had so many responsibilities that weekend that we gave the little one to the grandparents, and they both went their separate ways.

When I arrived at the hotel, the receptionist informed me that my client would be waiting for me in the evening at the hotel bar. It sounded strange, but I didn’t object. I got ready and sat at the bar at the agreed time and waited. When he didn’t come even after 15 minutes, I ordered a glass of wine. Suddenly someone hugged me from behind and kissed me. I immediately turned to explain to the person in question how things are when I saw my husband.

This is how it ended…

I couldn’t believe it, but when he explained to me that he made up the whole meeting so that we could spend at least one weekend together, I was at a loss for words. We got a little tipsy at the bar, and that night we shared it on the hotel roof in a giant hot tub. Later in the toilets, in the room, and they spent the whole weekend in bed together. Since then, our hotel romances have been repeated at least once a month.