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Open About Female Orgasm: 4 Ways to Achieve It Revealed

Several thousand women, several thousand interviews, one female orgasm and four techniques how women can achieve it. This has been elaborated by the latest study, which breaks the false image promoted by the media and the pornographic industry, according to which the mere penetration of the vagina by the penis is guaranteed to lead to orgasm.

According to international sexual and reproductive organizations, sexual satisfaction, sexual pleasure and excitement, the ability to increase excitement and enjoy sex in general, is a basic human right, not just a solution to a psychological or health problem.

Research shows that the more women can enjoy sex, the happier, more satisfied they are, have lower stress levels, experience less anxiety and depression, and are more satisfied in their relationship because they experience better intimacy. A positive sexual experience and the right to it can also be found in their declarations on sexual rights. But how is it in reality?

Porn, fake porn…

Currently, young people rely on pornographic content and the depiction and explanation of sex through pornography due to the absence of sex education (if it is not absent, then young people are not satisfied with its content). And this is a mistake due to its exposure and unreality (as we mentioned in previous articles), escalating violence and orientation towards a male audience, i.e. purely male needs and fantasies (sex is not a “one-way ticket”).

If you look at previous research, they claim that only 25-30% of women achieve orgasm during sexual intercourse – but they do not distinguish between penetration and ways of stimulating the clitoris, which comes out as the key to achieving sexual pleasure and orgasm.

57% versus 95%? Orgasm in women and men

To begin with, a survey conducted by Cosmopolitan magazine (a sample of more than 2,300 women aged 18-40, 2015):

  • 57% of women confirmed that they reach orgasm every time or most of the time during sex with their partner, but 95% of men reach orgasm every time or most of the time during sex with their partner. The most common obstacles are: 50% of women are “almost there, but I can’t get past the last step to orgasm”, 38% of women talk about insufficient clitoral stimulation, 35% of women about “wrong” clitoral stimulation from their partner and 32% of women are “too much in their own head ” or makes sure they look good during sex
  • 78% of women believed that partners care about achieving orgasm, but 72% of men work their way to orgasm without helping women achieve theirs
  • 33% of women did not fake an orgasm, 67% did. To the question “why”, they answered: 28% of women because of their partner and his feelings (so that he doesn’t feel bad, but feels satisfied), 27% of women because of a faster end to sex, because they felt that they would not reach orgasm, 42% of women gave both of these options and 3% of women entered “other reasons”
  • When asked how women achieve orgasm, they answered: 39% of women by masturbating with a hand or a sex toy, 20% of women by vaginal penetration and clitoral stimulation, 15% of women by penetration without stimulation, 12% of women by oral sex, 9% of women by their partner’s hand, 2 % of women with a sex toy in the hands of their partner and 3% of women stated “another way”
  • Age at first orgasm was given by women as follows: 9.5% of women were less than 11 years old, 14% 11-13 years old, 19% 14-16 years old, 27% 17-19 years old, 18% 20-24 years old, 4% of women 25-29 years old, 1% 30-34 years old, 0.5% 35-40 years old and 7% of women did not remember

By stimulating the clitoris for more intense sexual pleasure…

In another study (2017), they examined the orgasms of American women aged 18-94. The results showed that for 18.4% of the women interviewed, penetration of the vagina with the penis alone was enough to achieve orgasm, for 36.6% of women penetration alone was not enough, stimulation of the clitoris was also necessary, and 36% of women said that stimulation was not necessary during penetration, but sexual pleasure, excitement and orgasm itself were better and more intense with her.

One of the authors of Psychology Today, psychologist, sex therapist and professor at the University of Florida, Laurie Mintz, conducted a similar survey among her students. 43% of them confirmed that they achieve orgasm during sexual intercourse by stimulating the clitoris, 34% achieve it only by stimulating the clitoris, 19% achieve orgasm rarely, if at all, and only 4% of female students need sexual intercourse, i.e. penile penetration, to achieve it. This is quite an important result.

… but what is the clitoris?

The problem is that few people are interested in what a woman’s vagina actually looks like, what it is made of, which parts make up the clitoris, where are the nerve endings, the stimulation of which can increase a woman’s excitement. Then we should not be surprised that according to the WHO, 8-21% of women experience pain during penile penetration.

The clitoris is not just a protrusion visible to the eye, but an organ extending deep into the vagina. It consists of 18 parts – a mix of muscles, nerves and erectile tissues, all of which work together during arousal. Its length is 7-12 cm and during excitement it swells and increases up to 50-300%. Many doctors believe that the G-spot is only part of it.

The clitoris contains an average of 8,000 nerve endings (twice the number of nerve endings in the penis). Other nerve endings sensitive to touch also include other external parts of the female genitalia, i.e. the vulva – the inner lips and the entrance to the vagina.

And the first third of the vaginal canal also contains them, which does not mean that the other two thirds are not sensitive endings, they just react more to pressure, which explains why many women like the feeling of a penis or a sex toy in the vagina.

4 techniques to achieve orgasm

Plos One magazine published the latest research this year, which took a rather (until then) unconventional look at achieving orgasm (during penetration): first it interviewed 4,270 women aged 18-plus from around the world to pinpoint the four most important techniques, then it focused on American women (3017 women aged 18-93, online research) to verify practices:

  • About 70% of women stimulate the clitoris with a finger or a sex toy during the penetration of the vagina with the penis (or sex toy).
  • About 76% of women move their penis or sex toy in such a way that it rubs (stimulates) against the clitoris, constantly during the entire penetration, while the penis remains inside the vagina, so there is no penetration – by moving in and out
  • About 84% of women concentrate on penetration only at the point of entry into the vagina (so-called shallow penetration) – with a finger, tip of the penis, tongue, lips, sex toy (excitement, subsequent penetration into the vagina, or orgasm, women described as more pleasurable and satisfying )
  • About 88% of women “rotate”, turn, raise or lower their hips/pelvis during penetration to influence/accommodate the friction of the penis, sex toy. It was about the position and angle of a woman’s hips as a way to achieve greater sexual excitement and orgasm

The results show that the clitoris is key. Three of the four techniques involve stimulation of the clitoris, and during penetration, women intensify their sexual excitement by applying pressure to the inner clitoris. These findings are all the more important because they disprove the “myth” created by pornographic images, according to which women can achieve intense orgasms only by penile penetration or toys.

They are also important for the support of women who are unhappy with the inability to reach orgasm just from penetration. Orgasm can be achieved in different, different ways than is widely advertised and portrayed. Therefore, it is better to focus on getting to know your own body, communicating your sexual needs and walking proudly and confidently towards their fulfillment.

From the men’s point of view: Do you want to please him? Every guy craves these positions when making love

If sex was a tool for reproduction, it wouldn’t matter in what position it took place. Today, however, it is a source of divine joy, a loving fusion of two lovers, a play of bodies and an instrument of pleasure. And choosing the right position determines how satisfied the guy will be with him.

Lotus flower

Like the Buddha, the common man also achieves near-enlightenment in this position. The basis is that he sits on a chair or bed, you hug him with your thighs and sit on his erect limb. It is a more physically demanding position for a woman, but the other half will enjoy it all the more.

He can play with your breasts, kiss you on the face, hug you like his greatest treasure, and at the same time you will not stop fucking with everything. However, in this position it is a little difficult to operate interrupted intercourse. Rarely is the unraveling fast enough and therefore it is nice to combine it with a condom or a reliable form of contraception.

Woman up

The difference between men and women is manifested both in life and in bed. However, there is one position that creates prerequisites for mutual symbiosis. The riding position is top for both women and men.

But only if the partner really controls it. The gentlemen want to see her in action. How they are crazy about their sex, happy, their love itself, and they just calmly wash with pleasure and enjoy the pleasant feelings and the passionate erotic theater.


If men didn’t like her, her first place in the most used list would be in jeopardy. It is not a simple position to find love among men. Simple things can go wrong the fastest.

A guy will appreciate the most if you are full of activity with the missionary, you touch his ass, stimulate his rhythm, you can even show him your breasts. In principle, it does not matter how you understand the position, but it is true that activity equals attraction, passivity equals disinterest.


Exceptionally intense game of two bodies. The partner lies on his back, but his shoulders and head are slightly hanging away from the bed. Practically the whole activity is up to you, but the head pointing down allows you to glide over the body as perfectly as during a nude nuru massage. It is equally beautiful for both of you if you exchange afterwards.


A bit of a hunting position, in which the partner simply steps up to the partner from behind, leans her against the kitchen counter or the wall in the living room, and starts focusing on her strengths from behind. Men love this position for an animal version of the quickie. At work, at home or on a trip. Therefore, they will be very pleasantly surprised if their partner does not put on their panties here and there.

From behind

Why do they adore her so much? Similar to standing, they are excited by the possibility of conquering their lover. However, the possibility of a more comfortable position and better activity on the part of the woman also comes into play here. At the same time, it is a bit more relaxed and slower than standing, but it still has the adrenaline of wildness, although with a flavor of greater intimacy.

Men revealed which women were the most unfaithful to them: You can have great sex with them, but even that is not a guarantee

Not only men are unfaithful, women can also be beautiful bastards sometimes. You can have great sex with them, but even that is not a guarantee that you will be the only one by their side.

Good sex is immediately reflected in a man’s mood, and most of them do not hide the fact that they need it for life. They are also disappointed from time to time, and the woman they looked up to can go behind their back. Not even great sex is a guarantee that it doesn’t happen.

You can have great sex with them, but even that is not a guarantee

While many times the first sign that something is up is when a woman stops sleeping with you, this may not always be the case. Even women, with whom men had perfect sexual pleasures, led them by the nose and over time found out that they were taking turns in bed with someone else. Here are their experiences.

Men revealed which women were the most unfaithful to them

“I had a great career but no relationship. When I found my partner, I wanted to treat her to everything I could afford to buy her. I noticed that we always had really mega good sex then. That’s why I was happy to give her a present. But over time, it wasn’t enough for her and she started hooking me, the originally ordinary woman, with an even richer guy,” adds Roman (40) with a smile today.

“I didn’t know that I had a boyfriend by my side who was talking to my friends behind my back. Over time, I realized that she was always a flighty type who needed to socialize and visit all her friends in the evening, hug and kiss them,” confided Peter (35), who thanks to this understood what type of woman he did not want to have by his side .

“The more I earned, the more my girlfriend began to turn into an artifice. As if she was afraid that she was in danger from the other women. However, I had no idea that he would go even further and flirt with each of my friends. Finally, one of my best friends succumbed to her and I have since deleted both of them from my life,” added Mario (44) at the end.

3 tips you must master to make your sex much more exciting: This is how you and your significant other will enjoy

If you want to spice up your sex life, a few small changes are enough, but they can really do a lot. See what to bet on in the field of intimacy.

Learn to talk openly and regularly about sex with your partner

Talking about sex in a new relationship can be difficult to start because you may feel embarrassed. However, if sex does not satisfy you, communication with your partner will help you. An honest heart-to-heart will encourage both of you to open up and share your feelings.

In order for this conversation to be effective and not a source of arguments, you should not moralize your partner or blame him for anything. Gently explain what you want, not what your partner is doing wrong. Believe that it is the first and fundamental point that will take your sex life to a higher level.

But choose the right time for this conversation. It can be at breakfast, in the bathroom or in bed. It is important that you both take your time and be in a good mood.

Try dirty talk

The sexiest organ in our body is the brain, because sexual desire arises in it. That’s why dirty talk, or talking about sex in an obscene way, is so exciting. All you have to do is treat yourself to it occasionally, which will spice up sex in a different way.

Indulge in aphrodisiac foods

Food and sex are two basic human needs. It’s no surprise that people like to combine the two for greater pleasure.

An aphrodisiac is any product that stimulates and increases libido. Chocolate, oysters, avocado, red pepper, ginseng, honey, strawberries and nuts are considered the best aphrodisiac foods.

You can have the most perfect sex: One thing a man will never tell you, he will only confide in his lover

Although men know how to appreciate quality sex with pleasure, they still hide something as a taboo. Even after the most perfect sex, they won’t tell one thing, only the lovers will always find out.

Whether we like it or not, lovers are for a man sometimes like a confessional for believers. What men say to a lover, they don’t even say to their best friend. This is also why many guides to perfect sex are based on the statements of lovers.

You can have the most perfect sex

You may think you have the most perfect sex with your man, which can be true and often is, but men keep some secrets to themselves. And for a lover.

One thing a man will never tell you, he will always only confide in his lover

Their sexual fantasies very often go further than women think, and they never dare to tell or hint at it. One reason is that they would be ashamed of it in front of their wife, and another reason is that they prefer to keep their wild fantasy for a woman with whom they have no emotional connection.

“My secret dream is for a woman to be a dominatrix in bed. It is clear to me that I cannot want this from my wife, with whom I have a son. That’s also why this idea is more appealing with an unknown woman, whom I would never see again in my life and would not threaten my marriage,” revealed Filip (35).

“What I would like to try with my girlfriend sometime is anal sex. I know her opinion, so I never even told her about it. However, I often have ideas about what it feels like,” Michal (29) revealed his taboo.

“For me, it’s clearly lesbian sex. This is what I would like to experience in my life and preferably if it were my girlfriend, which I probably won’t get to see at the moment. I can’t imagine talking her out of it,” Jakub (38) added with a smile at the end.

These women are considered goddesses by men: Who has a magical aura for them and they can’t resist it?

Which women do guys find the absolute most attractive? And what adds to their attractiveness in their eyes? They revealed it themselves.

Grace, tenderness and fragility with a dose of mystery win

Some women seem to have a strange aura about them. When they appear in the presence of men, they are immediately attracted to them. They know exactly what to say, how to react in situations. Even their gestures seem attractive. What do men perceive really intensely in this regard?

Beauty is an important factor, but it is not as important as you might think. I adore women who are gentle, gentle at first glance. And they exude natural grace and fragility. This is something I simply cannot resist. Yes, big lips, a nice ass and a figure are great, but they are not what I notice in a woman if I am serious about her. It is that charm that plays a big role. (John 28)

For me, the embodiment of the goddess is a woman who is a woman. I feel that nowadays women are extremely self-confident, independent and more masculine than they should be. The delicacy is lost from them and that’s a shame. That’s what gets us men, and I have a feeling I’m not the only one who thinks so. My friends feel that way too. (Self, 31)

For me it is mystery and tenderness. Those are the two attributes that women who immediately attract me have. It simply radiates from them. Really, even if you don’t realize it, you just have this all around you and yes, it affects us guys more than you probably think. (Matthew, 33)

Do you have an infidel by your side? These things will betray him

Many of us encounter infidelity in relationships regularly. Whether we have experienced it firsthand or mediated by friends, one thing remains. You can spot a cheater long before he breaks your heart.

Although it may sound paradoxical, relationship boundaries play a key role in infidelity

Cheating itself is defined as an act of emotional or physical unfaithfulness to a partner. There are several different reasons why people commit infidelity such as physical, online, financial or emotional. Cheating falls into a dark area that, if not talked about, often affects the relationship in a negative way.

Although it may sound paradoxical, infidelity plays a key role in relation to the boundaries of the relationship and of course also what the consequences are if these boundaries are violated. What one person may consider cheating is not necessarily the same in another relationship.

There are many signs that indicate that your partner is cheating on you. But one of the most important and significant indicators is instinct. You shouldn’t ignore that one. Changes often manifest in emotional and physical distance, leading to a disconnect between the two of you.

1. You notice fundamental changes in communication

We are all busy, stressed and overreacting to ourselves from time to time. However, if a guy is unfaithful to you, the change in communication will begin to take on a different tone.

It will be ignoring, it will stop engaging you in the normal dialogues you used to have, it will start focusing on everything outside of you. It will simply leave you completely out of the communication sphere of interest.

2. Begins to make more significant changes in routines

We all have routines we follow to create the lifestyle we want. When you are in a relationship, you get used to it with your partner as well. But if his changes significantly, it’s time to pay attention.

Ask yourself: Has anything changed with his routine? If so, what has changed and how significant is this change? Sometimes the changes are subtle, so they may not be noticeable at first. However, it is the first indication that something seems to be happening.

3. He takes more care of himself

Most people focus on some form of self-care, such as physical activity at the beginning of the year or as the summer months approach. That’s understandable.

However, if your partner suddenly dresses differently, changes perfume, pays more attention to his appearance, maybe it’s time to ask or think about this behavior.

4. He becomes more critical of you

We all have some traits that are less than ideal, whether in behavior or physically. But when your friend starts criticizing you about things that didn’t bother him before, a light bulb should turn on in your head again.

It could mean that he is cheating on you. Therefore, it is good to be aware of and accept changes in this sphere.

5. He starts to have secrets

He used to have no problem talking to you about everything, you had access to his phone, computer, or diary. When there is a change in this, it does not bode well.

There are men who guard their privacy in this sphere from the beginning, but the problem arises when this change happens out of the blue.

Forget boredom in bed: These sexual practices can perfectly banish it

You can return the spark and passion to your relationship quite easily. You just need to know how to do it. However, some things work literally miraculously. Implement them in your bedroom and believe that you will definitely not be bored in bed.

Actively work to keep your sex life fresh

A study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology found that couples who believe that a healthy sex life takes work are much more satisfied with sex and relationships than those who believe that good sex should happen naturally. Researchers have found that having an implicit belief that sex should be good if you find the right partner is simply inaccurate. Those who believed in this kind of sexual destiny were more likely to experience a downward trend in their intimacy and connection and to become bored in the relationship much more quickly.

Sex life is like a garden. In order to maintain it, you need to water it and take care of it. So if you want to avoid boredom in the bedroom and outside, remember that good sex takes work,” revealed the lead author of the study, Jessica Maxwell.

Kiss during and especially before sex

Kissing is important because it helps couples connect and ultimately stay together. It releases oxytocin, the love hormone, and also helps reduce the stress hormone cortisol, so couples usually feel relaxed and at ease right after a good kiss. If you make it a point to kiss each other, your hormones will pretty much do the bonding work for you. It’s so simple yet effective.

There is nothing wrong with getting too comfortable in your relationship. It just means you’ve made it really far. But if you don’t want boredom to cause problems in the bedroom, according to science, you can prevent it by switching things up and showing more affection before the act itself.

Change the scene

If you only have sex in the bedroom, try changing the space to spice it up. Explore a new room in the house, spread the word in the garden or book a room at a nearby hotel. A change of location will add newness and freshness to the experience, making it more enjoyable for both of you.

Try a different kind of sexual intimacy

If you are already bored with the most interesting positions during traditional sex, try to take a break and focus on mutual pleasure through touch and taste. Doing so will allow you to slow down and focus on each other’s pleasure, increasing your desire and giving you the opportunity to rediscover the magic of mutual arousal.

Share your feelings

When you first fell in love, you probably told your partner that you loved them. But as relationships continue, people often forget to show their partners love and appreciation in the same way they did in the beginning, which can lead to feelings of underappreciation and dissatisfaction that translate into a poor experience in the bedroom.

Make it a point to tell your partner how much you want them, appreciate them and describe in detail the reasons why you love them. This will deepen your emotional connection and stir things up in bed.

I had the best sex of my life with a man I (didn’t) want to: This revelation says it all

I never quite understood women who couldn’t control themselves because of some guy, they primitively succumbed to their impulses and didn’t care if the man was engaged or not.

Like son, like father

Until something similar happened to me. But the case where it was “just someone else’s partner” would be a bit simpler. However, I fell in love not only with the husband, but also with my friend’s father. So, you can imagine the struggle when you have to meet someone who is extremely, almost fanatically, attracted to you, but on the other hand, you know that you can’t have anything with that person… That is, until you find out that his sympathies are the same as yours.

Michal, my new friend was amazing. We met at a company party. At first we took everything for granted, we didn’t care about our status, we enjoyed each other. After dating for six months, we somehow decided to move things on. We started living together, getting to know each other’s friends and, of course, our parents. And the first day when I met his people was fateful for me. At first glance, his father was not only very handsome, but also a gentleman, incredibly funny and wise. He was simply a slightly better version of Michal. Already at the first meeting, I felt how he was looking at me. But in a different way than fathers usually look at their sons’ new girlfriends. And I looked at him the same way. Every time our eyes met, I felt like I was blushing like a teenager. I’ve never felt anything like that with any man right from the start.

The game has begun

The first weeks after meeting Michal’s father were very difficult for me. We met every weekend for lunch together, and I could feel the sympathy between me and his father only growing. After a month, we even managed to switch to inconspicuous fleeting touches, which turned me on incredibly. Until each time I was more and more afraid that it was about me. However, his father and I have never said anything privately, nor have we called or written to each other. It was basically our game, but it could have ended in a complete disaster.

I couldn’t resist

I will never forget the day we had our first sex. It was unexpected, and it was at a family celebration. Michal’s sister celebrated her birthday and the whole family gathered in his parents’ big house. I was looking forward to the celebration mainly because of his father, so I threw myself into it accordingly. From the beginning, it went exactly as I expected. Seductive glances, fleeting and especially inconspicuous touches… But I never dreamed that it would all begin on this very day. Michal’s father caught me at the opposite end of their house, where he was literally waiting for me. He took me to the guest bathroom and started kissing me passionately. I didn’t resist in any way, on the contrary, I let him know that this is exactly what I want. The fact that we could be caught at any moment made it even more exciting. But it wasn’t just about kisses. He passionately and violently threw up my clothes, ripped off my panties and penetrated me with such energy that I felt like I was going to explode at any moment. Those minutes of pleasure were the best of my life. After this quickie, we quietly returned to the party, but we still didn’t exchange a word in private.

The danger grew more and more

Monday after the celebration, I received an email in which he wrote to me. He wanted to meet again. I knew it was bad, wrong and reprehensible, but I didn’t care. I didn’t hesitate and immediately made another appointment with him. And then another, and another… We met secretly for more than six months. I didn’t think about what would happen, whether someone might discover us. I loved Michal, but sex with his father, as well as him, even more. Our meetings escalated and became more and more intense, and the possibility of being discovered also increased. That’s exactly what happened. When I least expected it. Resp. at all. One evening I brought my work home. I wasn’t feeling well, so I was working from my bed, when Michal joined me and I had to jump back for a second, he borrowed mine to count. I had just opened the mails and he was quite suspicious that I had so many from his father. They opened them and began to read. When I returned to the room, I knew what time it was. I wasn’t ready for it, I’m just still there like a pillar of salt and she actually convicted herself by that silence. That evening, Michal ran to see his father, who confessed to him. They agreed that if we ended it immediately, they wouldn’t tell his mother. That’s what happened. I broke up with Michal, she never saw his father again in her life. Not that I didn’t want to, but it was enough that I destroyed my relationship, I didn’t want his parents’ marriage either. It was time to do the right thing and start controlling yourself.

My husband cheated on me for years and I didn’t mind. Until he ended it, which totally turned my life upside down

Sweet ignorance is exactly what held our marriage together…

I never believed in endless love until death. Nevertheless, I got married at a very young age. Of course, I loved my husband Patrik, basically I still do. We met while studying at university. After two years we decided to get married. Our neighborhood was quite surprised by this relatively quick step. We both had the same personalities, we wanted to build a career, so at first glance it might seem that family is the last thing we want. And basically we didn’t even want to. Yes, we wanted to be married, but children were out of the question for many years.

A marital idyll

After the height, we both managed to get lucrative jobs very quickly. We both worked hard on each other, which was reflected in our married life. We saw each other very little, but let’s face it, each of us has our own needs. Both men and women. Mine was regular sex. I mean every day. But since my husband was busy with work, I started looking for this pleasure elsewhere… Every evening when I was without my husband, I went out and picked up some man. Just like that, for pleasure, for one night… So yes, I was the one who first started cheating in our relationship.

After two years since joining our jobs, Paťo has developed very skillfully. Suddenly, he was not only an attractive, funny guy, but also very successful. Which of course added to his self-confidence and attracted the attention of other women. And guys are guys. When young, attractive women in their twenties start throwing themselves around their necks, few can say no. He didn’t say either. I knew right from the start that you found a lover. He acted exactly like I did when I started cheating on him. Did it bother me? Not. Because as soon as he had an affair, I could also attend to my activities. Everything was fine at home, sex together was great, we didn’t fight… You might think that we have an idyllic marriage.

Everything will end someday

We lived like this for almost ten years. And during that time he had no idea, I, on the other hand, knew absolutely everything. Even after those ten years, I never thought that a day would come that would change my life completely. At the company party, Patrik got more drunk than he should have, and could not hide his close relationship with his secretary from his colleagues. When he realized what he had done the next day, he decided to be honest and tell me everything before the others told me. He confessed to everything. I didn’t know how to react. I pretended to be indignant, but only so that he wouldn’t find out that I knew about it. He promised to end the affair, and he did. He suddenly had more time that he wanted to devote only to me and our marriage, he even started pressuring me that he wanted a family, children… Which of course did not play into my favor. I simply loved my one-time affairs and did not want to give them up. Suddenly, Patrik became so suspicious that he went after me one evening and caught me in the act. He gave me a choice that day. Him or divorce. I loved him, but I was ashamed in front of him for the long years of lies, disbelief, that I chose divorce. I couldn’t live with the idea that he knows everything about me. A month after the separation, I found out I was pregnant. However, I have no idea who the father of my child is, and I’d rather never find out.

I got involved with a married man who left his family for me. Nevertheless, she decided to take this step…

Everything always starts innocently enough. Likewise, the story of our reader Zuzana, who shared her experience with us.

Everyone makes mistakes. Really everyone…

An innocent beginning

I met Marek on a business trip. It was one of those weekend seminars held once a year in a luxury hotel in the mountains. Some kind of lectures during the day and entertainment in the evening. It was already my third seminar, so I knew exactly what to expect and I was really looking forward to it. Establishing contacts was never a problem for me, and immediately after arriving at the hotel, I started talking to a group where he was also. We were seated immediately. There was no chemistry and no sparks flying between us. We used to have a common language and from morning till night we always had something to gossip about. At the end of the stay, we exchanged contacts and of course stayed in touch. I knew he had a partner and even a child, and even though he was nice to look at, I had no intention of “dealing with…”

He got back to me almost immediately after leaving. We innocently communicated with each other through social networks, occasionally called each other and since we had the same job close to each other, once in a while we also met unplanned at work events. After a few weeks, however, I began to realize that his interest was not just purely friendly. Even though he didn’t show it at all, he flirted with me very subtly and subtly. Until he made me think that he was very interested in me. So I started behaving a little differently. I also subtly showed a different interest in him as a person, which he noticed very quickly. And I rather had the feeling that it really scared him, because he immediately “withdrew” for a few weeks…

From the entertainment of transgressions

After almost two months of being together, he actually cut off contact, we met by chance at a work party. He was there without a partner and I was also alone. This time our meeting was with sparks that I might have expected at the beginning. We knew how the evening would end. And that’s exactly how it ended. However, after a night spent together, we were both overcome with remorse, and we broke up with each other again for another month. However, Marek couldn’t stand it and after a few more weeks he asked me for a meeting. And then another. And others. After each night, my regrets multiplied, but I couldn’t resist him. It has never happened to me that I couldn’t control myself like this because of a man. However, I saw that it bothered him less and less. He liked spending time with me. And from one-week meetings they became daily over time. We went on joint trips, weekends and weekly vacations. His girlfriend had no suspicions and we simply enjoyed our time together. This romance lasted over a year, when one day out of the blue he announced to me that he wanted to leave his partner. It stunned me. More than gratification, I found it strange. Yes, I liked him, and our moments together, but at that moment I realized that because of me, one family would fall apart. I didn’t know how to react. However, he did not wait for my election. She packed up and left the house for me. And suddenly we were officially a couple.

Quick sobering up

The first days and weeks of living together were very awkward. I began to perceive Marek differently. I realized that the situation had changed. At the same time, I was becoming more and more paranoid. Every day I told myself that this person was able to lie and leave his wife and his own son without blinking an eye. I was so overcome with remorse that I couldn’t handle it and asked him to leave. Let him return home or go somewhere else, but I can’t live like this. I didn’t love him so much that I forgot the fact that what he did to her, he could easily do to me. And maybe he wouldn’t, I don’t know, and I’ll never find out either… I broke off contact with him harshly, and even though he tried his best to convince me that I was a “different case”, I couldn’t continue it. I was simply overcome by remorse and conscience more than love…

These are the three things men want most in bed: When you fulfill them regularly, they have no reason to run off for another

Although it may seem that there is no manual on how to keep a guy, this is not entirely true. There are some things men can’t say no to, and as long as you indulge them regularly, you’ve won!


Prelude. The biggest misconception of the 21st century is that men don’t like foreplay. Sure, some men either don’t like foreplay or are bad at it. However, in general, guys want an erotic experience, touching and long sex. If they just want an orgasm, they know how to masturbate.

That’s why they need a woman by their side who can give them all this. In addition, they perceive good and high-quality sex as a relief from stress, and the female orgasm itself is the pinnacle of eroticism and excitement for a man.

Taking the initiative

Taking the initiative in sex is something every guy wants. If a woman makes it clear to him in bed that he is attractive, that she wants him, he is not over it. In short, a guy needs to feel wanted. It adds to his self-confidence, and at the same time, in this way, a woman can really keep him with her.

Stepping out of your comfort zone

Erotic games are something that gets every single guy. It is ideal if you set aside one day a week to fulfill any wishes he may have in bed.

In short, men adore women who are open to experimentation and new things in sex. Then they don’t tend to look elsewhere for anything.

The most flirtatious women were born under this sign: Beware of them if you are interested in something permanent

They are extremely seductive, attractive and I guess every man will look for them. They have a special aura around them that makes them sexually attractive in all respects.

They know exactly how to stroke a man’s ego and win men over immediately

Everyone has their own dating style, but it’s true that some people have a natural charisma and charm. You know the type. They always have a joke or story on hand that is sure to make others laugh, they never lack that perfect smile on their face, and they also always seem to know how to charm another person with flattery.

They are great speakers, they love to flirt, they do not lack a sense of humor, but also elegance and grace. Whoever they meet, they have something to say. They always have a large group of people around them, especially those who admire them.

These women are definitely among the most expressive signs of the zodiac, and yet they are extremely flirtatious. Men are thus naturally attracted to their radiance. Confidence is half the battle when it comes to reaching out to another person. And these fun-loving signs definitely don’t miss that. This is because most of the time they don’t see what they are doing as flirting, even though it is. They know exactly how to caress a man’s ego, and they immediately win men over and wrap them around their finger.

We are talking about women born under the sign of Leo and Libra. However, if you are planning something more than just one night with them, you better think it through. They are not really built for long-term relationships. They have to fall head over heels in love, and it doesn’t happen that often.