In the ordinary life of two people, a situation occurs that when a woman rejects a man in bed, she finds another. However, the case of our reader Kristina (30) was different, because…

It’s natural that it won’t be so hot over time, but…

“I know that I shouldn’t be surprised that married life, especially with children, slips into a kind of stereotype over time. After all, even every more experienced married couple around me prepared me for it. It is said that it is natural that it will not be so hot and spontaneous with children and other obligations. But even so, I couldn’t get rid of the thought that if my man would overcome himself a little, we could still experience this here and there,” our reader begins her story.

The same scenario over and over

Kristina’s problem was that, it seemed to her, that her husband Marko had become quite lazy in this area: “The same bed scenario over and over again, the same place – our bed, the same strokes, no foreplay, quickly turn him on, if I’m in I was excited at that moment, somehow it didn’t bother him. The same positions over and over again, because Marko preferred it from behind, which I often had trouble doing in this position. Well, I simply thought that instead of the two of us doing it, only Marko did a good job of himself quickly, and I was the fifth wheel in the wagon”, describes Kristína’s feelings at the time.

Denying sex, solving the problem?

So she decided to deny him sex for a while. She knew that this was a rather radical solution, but she also knew that he would take it as a blow to the waist to bring up the subject. “I thought I’d try to make him spontaneous again, more inventive in sex than when we were still single and childless. Although it would seem to some of you that I risked losing him if he started looking for what he doesn’t have at home in another bed, I subconsciously knew that my husband loved me and he just needed a little push, after all, how almost every man, if we want to get what we want, right? :)”

So Kristína quite subtly started inventing reasons for which she couldn’t seem to at that moment. One time she pretended that she had a lot of work to do and was tired, another time she had problems down there that she couldn’t help, until finally she really couldn’t because she had her days. However, she did one more thing: She started dressing very sexy, no sweatpants around the house, but tight leggings and low-cut T-shirts. She slowly smeared herself in front of Mark and seduced him as if she wasn’t even aware of it. Kristín finally got sexy nightgowns for the night and a longed-for day.

Rude proposal

“He called me before the weekend at work on Friday to ask if we would have a romantic evening, that he misses me and wants me very much. However, I had a better idea in my head and suggested that if he wanted me so much, he should come to work with me to satisfy his libido. At first he was taken aback, but when I began to describe to him in detail what I would do with his team at that moment and what kind of underwear I was wearing, it didn’t take him even half an hour to catch up with me. Almost no one was at work. I sent my assistant home and when Marko arrived, I locked the door, closed the blinds and finally enjoyed sex, like in the good old, casual days. And they say it won’t be like that anymore….” Kristín adds with a smile on her lips.

But that was not all, they really enjoyed a romantic evening as a couple, without children, and since then they have been planning such trips regularly. “Marko understood that if we both put in a little effort, it doesn’t have to be literally just shoving here and shoving there, but something extra that we can both enjoy much better and for longer”, he concludes his experience.